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Having kids is one of the greatest blessing in your life. Aside from a wonderful career and a loving husband, kids complete your life. However, there are some parents who are so focused on their work that they take for granted their kids. They thought that giving the best things will always make their kids happy. They forget that as a child grow up, they are still looking for the presence of their parents. They want to tell stories about their school, how they get A's from their school activities or how they baked cute diaper cake in their mini kitchen with their playmates. These seem insignificant but for a child, it means the world to them. Hence, make sure that you give them some quality time.
Having a quality time doesn't mean that you spend so many hours with them. What matters is the bond you forge with your kids and you were able to show you care and love them. Hence, if you spend one afternoon with them talking about their school work and joining them in their mini kitchen baking diaper cakes and you show that you are really into talking and communicating with them, it would be more appreciated than spending the whole weekend with then but your mind is in your work and other problems. So in bonding with your kid, make sure that you are really into what you are doing with them and that you are really paying attention to what you are doing whether you are coloring books with them or preparing baby shower diaper cake.
Bonding activities are vital to your kids growth because it gives them a sense of security and love that you will always be there for them. Even a simple baking diaper
cake with them is important because they feel that they really matter to you. It makes them feel that they have a complete family, hence, making them feel that they themselves are already complete. They don't have to envy their playmates anymore whose parents are always around with them. They can say that if they are in need, they can always approach you. It gives them a feeling of security and confidence that everything is going to be fine.
Statistically speaking, it has been found out that parents who bond with their kids even with just an afternoon every week of spending quality time with them decorating diaper
cakes for babies or joining them in making assignments are proved to be more successful in their studies and work. It is like having a psychological effect on their well being, intelligence and on how they deal with people. Imagine a child who is always looking for their parents. It would give a sense of insecurity and worse, the feeling that they are not loved. As they grow up, these kids will ask themselves what is wrong with them and why their parents are always not around. When these kids grow up, they would have a twisted sense of what is love and they will grow to loath themselves believing that there is something in them that is not lovable. Don't let your kids grow up in this scenario. |
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